Emigrating: Warnings and experiences from German expats!

Emigrating: Warnings and experiences from German expats!

In the current special program “The Balance Sheet” by VOX, experiences of emigrants from the popular program “Goodbye Germany!” illuminated. The protagonists warn particularly urgently about the challenges that emigration can bring. Lena Koll, who emigrated to Mexico in 2012, talks about her eventful time in Ecatepec, one of the more dangerous districts of the metropolitan region. With only 1,500 euros in her pocket, she was originally motivated to leave her homeland by a singing career and a relationship with a bassist. She aptly describes her stay as a “bad weather report”, but despite all the difficulties, she finds the step worthwhile, especially after the birth of her daughter from a later relationship.

Another couple, Kathrin Mermi-Schmelz (57) and Tommy Mermi-Schmelz (54), emigrated to Brazil 18 years ago with Kathrin's daughter Jessi and her business partner Uwe Wehrstedt. The two had been preparing for emigration for two years, but had to overcome unforeseen challenges. After eight years in Brazil, they decided to return to Europe and now work in the catering industry in Sweden and Austria. They have been living in Mallorca for eight years. Her daughter Jessi returned to Germany in 2014. Tommy emphasizes that emigrating is “a rollercoaster ride” and requires more commitment than in Germany. Despite the difficulties, they do not regret their decision, but point out how important a stable relationship is before emigrating.

Challenges of emigration

The stories of Lena and the Mermi-Schmelz show that every emigration has its pitfalls. Adapting to a new culture in particular can pose major challenges. Emigrating to a country like Brazil requires openness and patience, as the Perspective Abroad website explains. Portuguese is the official language and language skills are fundamental for integration and everyday life. Language courses, whether on-site or through online learning platforms, are therefore strongly recommended to facilitate cultural inclusion.

The Brazilian way of life is strongly characterized by warmth and spontaneity. Traditions and festivals play a central role in cultural life, with Carnival as the most famous event. Newcomers should also familiarize themselves with the concept of “jeitinho brasileiro,” which describes the Brazilian way of solving problems, often with a fair amount of flexibility and patience.

Finances and living expenses

The cost of living in Brazil varies greatly depending on the region and individual lifestyle. Big cities like São Paulo and Rio de Janeiro are more expensive than rural areas. This is particularly clear when it comes to rental prices in sought-after urban districts. That's why many expats initially choose furnished apartments or aparthotels to make it easier to get started.

Another important aspect is the public healthcare system in Brazil, which offers free basic care to all residents. However, the quality of this healthcare can vary. Many expats therefore choose private health insurance to get shorter waiting times and better service, especially in large cities with well-equipped hospitals.

In summary, experienced emigrants strongly warn against underestimating the complex challenges that come with a new start abroad. The balance between the longing for a new life and the real requirements on site is crucial for the success of an emigration. Kathrin Mermi-Schmelz emphasizes that a stable relationship is essential to achieve long-term happiness in a new place.

For further information and tips on emigrating, especially to Brazil, we recommend taking a look at the detailed advice and information from perspective abroad: Foreign perspective.