Horse hostess is putting Sven off: surprising basket at dating!

Horse hostess is putting Sven off: surprising basket at dating!

In the current episode of "Bauer sucht Ms. International", the horse host Sven had to put a bitter setback. A potential partner, the horse host Carmen, gave him a basket. "You are a top man, look great, but I absolutely lack the feeling that it goes on," she explained to him in a direct conversation. Sven unexpectedly made this clear cancellation, since he had the feeling to this point that there was a positive connection between them. After the cancellation, he reacted injured and expressed his lack of understanding of the sudden turning of the events, especially after Carmen had previously sent different signals. "That hits me really surprisingly. I would have thought you are more sensitive," said Sven in an emotional moment.

The dynamics between Sven and Carmen shows how important emotional communication is in interpersonal relationships. These aspects are not only relevant when looking for a partner, but also in daily handling of others, such as in equestrian sports. The "relationship compass", a book by Kerstin Diacont and Dr. Sören D. Baumgärtner, illuminates the complexity of communication between riders, coach and horse. Different characters and needs are taken into account in this triangle relationship, which often leads to misunderstandings and conflicts. The riding lessons can quickly “avoid the problem” and therefore requires special emotion control and conflict management.

The challenges of communication

The authors of the "relationship compass" emphasize that it is essential to put the peculiarities of the three participants in the foreground. Communication arises on several levels, which offers many possibilities for misinterpretations. In order to optimize the interpersonal and animal relationship, motivation and consideration of psychological and social components are of great importance. The book offers effective suggestions to improve this communication barrier and is well placed in the industry with a number of 176. It was published in Müller Rüschlikon Paul Pietsch Verlage GmbH & Co. KG in Stuttgart and is available at ISBN 9783275023356.

While Sven in "Bauer is looking for Ms. International" in particular has to cope with emotional disappointment, the "relationship compass" shows that often in complex relationships, be it in private or in the sporting environment, a clear communication is the key to successful understanding and harmonious interaction. The insights from both areas clarify that setbacks, whether in feeling or in sports, always offer opportunities for improvement and reflection.